Earlier today, I (rather hastily) accused one such reader of being a jackass. But the truth is that he didn't mean to condemn my choice; he was merely expressing frustration at his own situation. And I get that frustration. Believe me, I grok it. But it makes me curious.
If you are an older virgin, or if you lost your virginity after the age of — let's say — 18 or so, why? Why have you waited or why did you wait? Do you regret it? Are you ashamed of it? Do you sometimes wonder if you are the only one?
So many readers have responded to this since I originally posted it last November, that I think it's worth re-running it every once in a while.